Be yourself.
Hide things.

Don't tell ANYONE you've had a miscarriage.
Don't tell anyone you're pregnant because you can't tell anyone you've had a miscarriage.
Children only exist if they're born to married parents.

Probability of divorce is not to be taken into account when one is pregnant and contemplating marriage.
Marriage is a tool one should use to make one's self unhappy.
Love is wonderful

Deceit and mischief are the preferred methods of communication between society and women who are simultaneously single and pregnant (though not if they're only one of the two).
Greed is sinful except where golden rings and diamonds are concerned.
The bride's family will pay for everything.
Don't say the word "dowry"

Follow your beliefs.
Make everyone happy.

Celebration isn't allowed without alcohol.
Go in this order or the world will explode: ring->father's permission->proposal->spend gobs of money->marriage
The vows have to be personal, unique, and binding (until the divorce).
The vows only count if everyone else is there to hear them.

Wear something you like.
Choose a diamond.
Wear a white dress.
Make it your own event.
Order matching outfits for all the pawns.

Be strong.
Follow the rules.